Let me start by saying, “I’ve never chosen a WORD for the year before”. I have however, seen many of my fellow mompreneurs talking about how they have a “word for the year“. The idea intrigued me because it’s like you are giving your year a main FOCUS. So I started thinking about what I wanted to focus on in 2016 and I noticed lately that I was drawn to the word “JOY“. I realized I had décor with that word in it and I was sharing posts on social media with that word it in. So, let me tell you why I chose this word for 2016.
Let’s start with the definition. JOY is defined as “a feeling of great pleasure or happiness“. I’ve also seen quotes describing JOY as “what happens to us when we allow ourselves to recognize how good things really are.” ~ Marianne Williamson
2015 was an amazing year for myself & my family. I feel like it was a pivotal year for me. I regained my confidence. I figured out who I really am and what I stand for. I figured out my place in this big ol’ world. I also figured out what doesn’t bring me JOY but instead brings me stress, tears, a bad attitude & just makes me grumpy. I decided that in 2016, I wanted to remove what I can in my life that doesn’t bring me JOY. This may be people, activities, volunteer work, business, etc. If it doesn’t bring me “a feeling of great pleasure or happiness”, then it must go!! Let’s be honest! Life is too short to be anything but happy. Right?! If there is something (or someone) in my life that I can let it go and it will bring more happiness into my life, then it MUST GO!! Everything I purposely do in 2016 will be done in JOY. I want to be a JOY to others. I want to wake up with JOY in my heart and go to bed feeling like I made a difference in the world. I want to tackle situations that could cause me stress or tears with JOY instead. I want to always look on the bright side of things. There’s always a reason for everything in my life…the good and the bad. And no matter what, there is always something good in every situation or at least I like to think there is. I could spend my days being stressed out about all of my daily tasks as a Mom of 4 or all of my duties as a PTO president. Or I can choose to look at the JOYS because of these tasks and duties. I have to do laundry because my family has clothes to wear. I have to cook because I have 6 mouths to feed. I have to clean because I have a beautiful house. I have to plan school events because I want to make a difference in the lives of our students and their families. There’s always a JOY in everything if you just take a closer look. For me, even death has a JOY…being with our heavenly Father surrounded by family & friends in Heaven. Don’t get me wrong, death is sad but I see the flip side. Heaven is a JOY of death.
I could go on and on about JOY but I won’t. It’s MY word for 2016. I think by searching for the JOYS in life, I will have a much happier and less stressful year in 2016. It will get me through the rough, stressful days with deadlines & endless loads of laundry. It will also bring great pleasure and happiness into my life because I have a choice to see things from a more positive perspective and I have a choice of what and whom I let be a part of my life. Now, maybe you are thinking about your word for 2016 and what you want this year to be about for you. Maybe you already have a word of the year chosen. I’d love to hear from you! Feel free to “comment” below or drop me an email at firstname.lastname@example.org. Let’s cheer each other on in 2016 and let our words lead us!